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My Valentine wish

By Sarita Sharda

 What  all I   want on this eve of Valentine is compassion:a flow between myself and others based on mutual giving from the heart. Communication with compassion  shows a genuine desire to understand, and get to know. It is the rock upon which healthy relationships are built and the very first relationship which one needs to build is with oneself. Show genuine interest in  yourself, be your best version and be more connected to yourself.


No matter who we are, no matter how successful, no matter what our situation, compassion is something we all need to receive and give.


Art of compassion in everyday life:  Be your valentine:


The best way to get your valentine is to be compassionate with yourself. As they say: you can’t learn to truly love others until you learn to love yourself .In other words be your valentine first.


So how do you show compassion to yourself?


To start, you can praise yourself for your small small everyday learning and success(even with small things like making your bed in the morning) 

Gift yourself a rose, chocolate and celebrate Rose day and chocolate day with yourself.


Next point is  forgive yourself for your mistakes by learning a lesson from them and give yourself a tight hug.Anyways celebrate Hug Day every day.


Pay gratitude for whatever you are having and celebrate blessings and now onwards we will start celebrating everyday as a Bless day.


However the topmost way to be compassionate with Yourself is focussing on strength  and positive qualities of your personality. And validating your feelings and treating yourself with feelings of compassion.Say I love myself , I am my favourite and I am my own Valentine.


Never underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment by yourself to yourself.


By giving yourself this type of care , attitude and upliftment, you’ll radiate compassion, love , positivity and goodness to surrounding people also.


There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting spirit up.I’m hopeful for a world with more love, acceptance, and compassion first for ourselves and for others too.



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  1. Tanmay DubeyFebruary 12, 2021 at 7:51 PM

    Thanks 😊

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  2. AdityaFebruary 12, 2021 at 8:14 PM

    Idea of self-love is great specially being more connected to yourself and also celebrating chocolate day with yourself πŸ˜…πŸ˜‹!!!
    Best article on valentine's day can really be useful for youths....

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  3. Sareeta ShardaFebruary 13, 2021 at 12:38 AM

    ❤️πŸ™πŸΌ

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  4. Sareeta ShardaFebruary 13, 2021 at 12:39 AM

    Thanks 😊

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  5. UnknownFebruary 13, 2021 at 3:58 AM

    So true "be your best version and be more connected to yourself...." Nice article

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  6. VaishaliMarch 31, 2021 at 8:36 AM

    So nice ..well written πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ˜Š

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  7. VaishaliMarch 31, 2021 at 8:36 AM

    So nice ..well written πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ˜Š

    ReplyDelete

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